Ali Abu-Awwad and Robi Damelin, Common Ground Awards 2008Ali Abu Awwad and Robi Damelin of the Parents Circle-Families Forum receive a Common Ground Award in 2008. (Photo courtesy of Search for Common Ground)

"When you have no hope that it will ever change, do you follow a big news story less closely?"

The NYU journalism professor Jay Rosen (@jayrosen_nyu) asked this question a couple of weeks ago on Twitter. It's a good one.

I think he's pointing at a truth many of us are remiss to admit to ourselves — and each other. Somehow we can build up a mental callous to certain news events like the ongoing tensions between Israelis and Palestinians. When we're doing our job properly, we feel we can create an opening, a sliver of space that allows you, our listeners and readers, to move past the headlines of despair and hopelessness by presenting you with personal stories that create a human connection and, in the case of this week's show, an emotional connection — as witnessed in Krista's exchange with Swanny:

Twitter conversation between Krista Tippett and SwannyThe Parents Circle - Bereaved Families Forum, Israelis and Palestinians who transmute pain into hope together.

Your interview with Ali & Robi is so valuable! I wish every American listened. And I love you for it.

@YoSwanny Thank you. That photo of them on our site is on my desktop. They give me courage - so do you.

Listen to Robi and Ali's story. Share their story with others. Talk about it with your family and friends.

Andrew Solomon (perhaps you remember our show The Soul in Depression"?) is making similar connections too. In his new book, Far from the Tree, he explores stories of identity and love in difference as experienced through family in his most recent work, :

Far from the Tree trailerWatch this video showcasing the love between parents and children grounded in the grit of experience.

It's a powerful set of testimonials that'll make you forget the video is a trailer for a book, which I'm now reading with zeal.

Listening to @kristatippett interview @BreneBrown is like watching Batman and Superman work the same case.

Brene' Brown speaksLove the analogy from Minna Bromberg (@minnabromberg)! This is representative of the overwhelming response to last week's show on vulnerability and shame with Brené Brown. As is typical, people who listened to the show bring their own insights and wisdom to the subject — like this one from Dan Phillips (@dannyboy), a sustainable design consultant based in London:

Leaning in to our vulnerabilities takes not only our own strength but the kindness of others and wider society.

We were also received, as Krista tweeted, "an important critique of my conversation with Brene Brown" from Davina AllenDavina Allen (@_dee_minor). She reminds us that there are many perspectives we need to consider when discussing shame, especially when it concerns race:

"People of color in the United States have been contending with these kinds of messages for literally hundreds of years now. Shame is absolutely nothing new to the experience of a person of color in the United States. On quite the opposite hand, resisting the ongoing onslaught of overt and covert messages designed to shame people of color is merely a normal part of our daily existence."

Ms. Allen continues:

"White people often have an inordinate amount of difficulty in being able to be vulnerable and honest with people of color when having conversations about racism. I believe this is so because they simply do not know how to effectively handle and confront the guilt and shame that they experience when they are forced to confront white privilege, to accept their complicity in benefiting from that privilege, and to accept that society is as unjust and painful for people of color as they say it is."

"If your thinking is the right thinking, that is a good work of art. It bears always your name." ~Thich Nhat Hanh photo by Robert S. DonovanThis sparked a courageous admission from Tamara B:

"It is exactly as you said — the inability to handle the guilt and shame of white privilege, to accept that my own complicity in benefiting from that privilege, to accept that society is as unjust and as painful for people of color as they say it is. I would add that, for me, it is also the fear of losing the benefit or status of white privilege. What would happen to me without this shield of protection?"

I encourage all of you to read Ms. Allen's full comment and the conversation thread that resulted. It's a fruitful dialogue worth engaging in.

In the same vein, Jonathan Tran has written an article for The Christian Century (@Christiancent) I highly recommend reading. It contains some heavy-duty theology and historical references, but as Krista says:

A fascinating, important piece on black theology claiming and enlivening church tradition in a new way.

Dagens foto - 140: WalkMoving forward, we're in the throes of our December/January show production, which includes an interview with Andy Revkin about the "knowosphere" — converging wisdom from the 20th-century French Jesuit paleontologist Pierre Teilhard de Chardin and 21st-century science journalism:

Wrapping my mind around this: "Matter is spirit moving slowly enough to be seen." ~Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

And yesterday Krista had a 90-minute conversation with Seth Godin on the new entrepreneurial paradigm taking shape today:

"We are all artists now." ~Seth Godin. Godin and Heschel hanging out together in my head via overlapping production. Intense... and fun.

And what better way to conclude this column that with these sage words from Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel "Above all remember that the meaning of life is to live life as if it were a work of art." ~Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel photo by Michael Loknerfrom a 1972 NBC interview:

"...remember that the meaning of life is to live life as it if were a work of art. You're not a machine. When you are young, start working on this great work of art called your own existence."

I also received some insightful responses to last week's request about ways of giving thanks. I'll share some of the responses next week.

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Sometimes it's a callousness, sometimes I think (at least for me) turning my back on stories of stuckness is a way of releasing my agenda around the outcome. We humans are shapers of the world - with our hands and in our minds. Sometimes we get so fixed on a specific outcome, there's no room for anything else. When I harden around a story, increased focus will not help me or anyone or anything. Sometimes I have to let go. In the case of this conflict, I've let go. Thanks for listening.

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Well said, Reya. For me, the challenge of letting go is to not stop paying attention and being aware of events without getting sucked in to the political vortex of it all. That's what was so special about sitting in the room with Robi and Ali while Krista interviewed them. They still have their ideas but the warmth of that human encounter I witnessed is something I'm trying to live out — albeit not so successfully, at times — in my daily encounters, even during the most heated debates. Thank you for sharing your perspective. It helps.

Wow! Thank-you for this compilation. What an incredible way to start my Sunday!

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