On Community: An Anonymous Saying from a Country School

Wednesday, December 18, 2013 - 6:27am
On Community: An Anonymous Saying from a Country School

A simple phrase quoted at a rural elementary school has us contemplating its meanings.

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Trent Gilliss (@TrentGilliss),  Head of Content / Executive Editor for On Being
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An grandmother and her grandson in Baoding, Hebei — a village in northern China known for its tradition of rural community service.

Credit: Thomas F. Peng License: Flickr (CC BY-NC-ND 2.0).

"I am who we are."

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I heard this quoted at my nephews' charming elementary school in Castle Rock, Minnesota yesterday and have been turning the phrase in my mind ever since. Any immediate reflections come to mind as you ponder this saying?

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32Reflections

the difference between gemeinschaft and gesellschaft

you wrote exactly my thoughts indeed I am because you are!!

reminds me of "ubuntu"

I recall how we, my fellow classmates and I used to bridle whenever we heard one of our teachers refer to each one of us as WE. She never said "I" but instead she would address us as "We " That was 50 years ago. . It took along time before I understood , what she was saying and why she was saying it. . "I" felt she was being dismissive but now I see she was being inclusive and that her intention was to make us all feel apart of something greater than ourselves. ..

I think about this a lot. I recently (at age 49) began working as a hospital chaplain intern. The work is so rewarding because in critical moments, all of the stuff (age, race, religion, orientation, gender, etc) gets peeled back and you're left with something like "One." We are all heart underneath it all. With the same deep longing to give and take love. It's pretty simple down there underneath the rest.

This speaks to connectedness (may not be a real word), dependence AND accountability that exists between all of us. I love this quote.

As a wildlife biologist I see how dramatically we humans have separated ourselves from other critters and our environment. For me, the quote ' I am who we are' reminds me that the 'we' is more than just people. We are part and parcel of the whole package... the 10,000 things as the Taoists might say.

I am limited by what and who I exclude, but my humanity is limited only by my exclusions. The more able I am to recognize others as my neighbors, the more complex, the more subtle, my humanity becomes.

If I fear, hate or deny my neighbors, then I am constrained by fear and hate and denial. If I welcome and love and accept my neighbors, then my humanity includes the humanity I recognize in them.

I think I love this quote.

Such an eloquent way of phrasing this. Thank you. I too love this quote.

Ubuntu- I am because of you...."we never have it all together, but together we have it all." "I am who we are." These phrases talk about how the performer needs the audience, the teacher needs students, the employer needs the employee, the parent needs the child and ultimately how we need one another to exist. I cannot become who I am without the company of those around me. We influnce one another. How well we care for one another is relected in our setting. If it is done well, our setting is safe, supportive, helpful. When it is done poorly, it becomes hurtful, we shrink away from life, and even the best of us are pulled down. If we think of and act as if caring for one another is the the most paramount, imagine what a great place that would be! Even the one strugfling the most will be lifted up. I think this can be as simple as picking up trash or offering to help someone without prompt and expectation. This is seeing that the way we treat others is ultimately the way we treat ourselves, and to care about ourselves, we must care about others and the setting around us. UBUNTU

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