For 20 years Sherry Turkle has asked unusual questions about the human side of technology. She wants to know how our relationship with devices affects our psychology, and why it is that “we no longer care if we are among life.” She’s referring to our love of gadgets, robots, and the way we obsess over email and smart phones, ultimately giving them highest priority in our social interactions.
We live-tweeted highlights of this 90-minute conversation, which we’re aggregating and posting here for those who weren’t able to follow along. Check out our Twitter stream next time at @BeingTweets.
- “There’s a phenomenon where people feel their phone ringings when they’re not. It’s called the phantom ring.” - @STurkle
- “Just because we grew up with the internet we think that the internet is all grown up.” @STurkle
- “I get very discouraged that we don’t seem to have a taste for stopping and asking how can we make this work for us?”-@STurkle on technology
- “What is intimacy without privacy, what is democracy without privacy?” - @STurkle, author of “Alone Together” - http://bit.ly/cJxjOQ
- “If you don’t teach your children how to be alone, they’ll only always know how to be lonely.”-saying in psychology via @STurkle
- “You don’t want to be alone because you can’t think by yourself, you can’t feel by yourself.” - @STurkle on growing up with texting, etc.
- “It’s teenagers who say ‘My parents text at the dinner table.’” @STurkle on how children also want sacred spaces.
- @STurkle on rules for adults to create sacred spaces in family- put down the phone at dinner, moment of school pickup and on the playground.
- “The greatest gift you can give your child is to walk out of the house without your phone. Show your child what that looks like!” @STurkle
- “We have to ask ourselves what is served by having an always on, always on you, open to anyone who wants to reach us, way of life.”@STurkle
- “I love uses of technology that are positive and hopeful and exciting.” - Professor @STurkle author of “Alone Together.”
- “In a human conversation I’m talking to another person who understands the arc of a human life cycle.” -@STurkle
- “I don’t need to be right, but I do need to feel as though people understand what I’m trying to communicate.” -@STurkle on conversation.
- “Whether or not we want robots caring for our elderly will be one of the most humanistic conversations we’re going to have.” -@STurkle
- “This is a corporation, it isn’t your mother, and I think people forget that.” -@STurkle on Facebook
- “There’s a whole kind of robotics that’s really going to change the way people see the world.” -MIT professor @STurkle
About the image: Sherry Turkle (photo: Peter Urban)