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In Islam we are taught that we should "argue in a way that is best" meaning use the most effective method. Is screaming "I'm right and you're wrong!" ever highly effective? I doubt it. What is most often effective is being authoritative. I do not agree with many of my family and friends about what is the most realistic view of the world and what should be done to improve it, but I do love them. By focusing on what is in my control, my behavior, my respect shown, I can have a positive impact on those I love.