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It is 4am, I listened to the podcast at 3am on a sleepless night....many of these since Bill died...after 4 years of care giving my husband who died last year. She said so many relevant things about the care giving role...horrible to watch him deteriorate, not knowing what to do, how long it will last, in trauma the whole time, guilt for not doing it better, and on and on...oh to do it over and do it better but i did not know what i was doing, it came on suddenly, i was in denial, i was grieving a loss i had not even accepted as imminent after a
glorious marriage.

so much more preparation was needed....too late.