A very good post. We are a traditional Jewish home where all the festivals are celebrated with fervor. When someone innocently mentioned to my 10 year old son today that kids who celebrate both are the luckiest because they get the most presents, he told me later that he disagreed. "It seems like it would be really confusing. People should celebrate one or the other" We too think the lights are pretty and the music is lovely. We can appreciate them, but they are not for us.
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