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Wesley, I hated you for a long time for leaving this comment. Thus the six month delay in response. But then I realized that it is exactly something my dad would have said ten years ago. S

My answer to you, and to my dad if I could give it - no. Losing him in his prime of life would not have been a kindness. As he's ebbed away it has give me time to love him and to say goodbye. And, as I said, to learn what I need to know for my own future. I would not give that up.

And as for dignity, fuck it. It's an over-rated nonsense virtue.