I have a friend who has a big personality. She told me a few years ago that men don't like her, and that in order to attract a man, she needed to learn to be different. I told her this: No! Being less of ourselves is never the answer. Be more you. Be more Pam-ish! Be more like yourself. Always!" She started a business and married afterwards - being more Pam-ish than ever.
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