I think it's important that you address WHY gays and lesbians wish to marry in a church with their spiritual family present. They aren't just fighting for the right to be recognized legally----a simple civil union could provide that. It is the need to be recognized as people with souls who love deeply and legitimately, and the desire to include their spirituality in their marriage. THIS is why they are asking the church for recognition. Many GLBTs feel a deep connection with their Creator, and it is unfortunate that His/Her children wish to segregate themselves on a spiritual level from their GLBT brothers and sisters.
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