Based on the interpretation that Jesus was a utopian ideologist who believed his father was natural law (cause & effect), the following is my interpretation of Matthew 22:30:
Marriage and family can be a beautiful and fulfilling union, but in the resurrection of the perfect union, we neither marry, nor are we forced to marry. Loving one another does not favoritize or envy. Preferential treatment towards family is at the expense of the unmarried; jealous fear of not being preferred and envy over another’s good fortune is unfulfilling, and purposely creating envy and jealousy is sickening.
Obeying our father and doing as we wish others would do in our situations is the way to consummate the perfect union for the living, and Jesus might or might not of shared many wives.
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