Never respond immediately to a critical or otherwise provoactive email. Read it. Think about it. Let it digest within yourself for a time. I find if it is going to require an equally tough-minded reply, it is best to either wait overnight before responding. Or write a response and wait overnight before deciding to send it. So, I have worked hard to slow down my response time, and not have such a trigger-happy finger on the send button.
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